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Youth makes midlife funny by letting its pressures pile up

Sharon Horgan’s comedy gives Alex room for sex, ambition and family care in a life where none of those demands politely takes a number.

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In Youth, Alex’s attempt to see her son off to university turns into a tiny comedy of hesitation: she starts running after the car, stops, then starts again. The Guardian’s review describes the moment as tender and painful, a neat measure of the show’s approach to midlife. Feelings can be sincere and embarrassing at once; the joke does not cancel the ache.

Alex is a fiftysomething divorced literary agent trying to date again while managing work, her son and ageing parents. TheWrap’s review emphasizes her desire to feel attractive and relevant. RogerEbert.com points to an awkward date and the competing demands of family and career. Sex and wanting to be desired remain ordinary parts of her life, which gives the comedy more bite than a polished story of self-discovery would.

The pressure comes from the overlap. A child leaving home, parents needing care and a job that demands attention do not take turns. Alex’s professional life adds its own unsettled mix of friendship and authority: The Guardian describes her relationship with Sam as both friendship and workplace hierarchy. That is a sharper source of comedy than a neat division between “work” and “home,” because even a close relationship can change character when one person is also the boss.

There is a risk in making a heroine carry every familiar burden of middle age. The reviews’ details point to a more particular comic instinct: the car that draws Alex into an undignified jog, or a date that exposes how desire and self-consciousness can occupy the same room. Those moments let Alex be inconsistent without turning her into a lesson in resilience. She can want sex and recognition while also wanting fewer people to need her before the day is over.

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